miércoles, 8 de julio de 2015

Visa madness part 2: CR-1/IR-1 and I-864 (Direct Consular Filing in Peru)

In part 1 I talked about my experience submitting the I-130 directly through USCIS at the US embassy in Lima. After waiting a nail-biting 6 weeks for the response, we received an email that our petition had been approved and had been sent to the Consular Section (the Department of State) for processing. Hoorah! One hurdle down. In this post, I'll talk about the second and final step of the immigrant visa process through Direct Consular Filing in Lima.

Here is an overview of what this step entails:

1. A medical exam of the intending immigrant: this is a required step, and I guess it's to ensure that the person does not have any communicable diseases that could be considered a public health threat, like tuberculosis. More on this below.

2. CR-1 / IR-1 application: this is the form and the accompanying documents for the intending immigrant.

3. I-864 affidavit of support: this is the form that the US petitioner submits, showing sufficient income to ensure that the immigrant doesn't become a burden on public assistance. It also establishes the petitioner's domicile, which typically means that you live in the US. Since everyone applying for DCF lives in Peru, this is a bit trickier but nothing to worry about! I'll cover this in detail below.

4. The consular interview. This is the final step, and I think it deserves its own post so I'm going to write about it separately.

After you get the confirmation email from USCIS, you wait. Supposedly, you will receive a packet in the mail from the Department of State here in Lima with instructions for how to proceed. Do not, under any circumstances, sit on your hands until you get this packet! Ours arrived a scant three days before our interview, and thankfully we had already been in contact with the embassy beforehand so we were prepared. I recommend contacting them about three weeks after hearing from USCIS.

You should ask: A) whether an interview date has been scheduled yet, B) whether you can go ahead with the medical exam, C) whether your spouse has been assigned a case number yet (it's a code that should start with LMA followed by a bunch of numbers), and D) how to proceed. In the title of your email, you should write "IV inquiry: (spouse's last name), case number unknown" (until they provide the case number). The first paragraph must contain your full name and your spouse's (the applicant's) full name, the type of visa (IR-1 or CR-1), and your contact information. They say they should reply in about 5 business days, but sometimes they might take longer. Don't be afraid to re-send the email if you haven't heard from them in 6-7 days.

Consular section email: limaiv@state.gov

The Immigrant Visa unit from the embassy will send you instructions about the medical exam and documentation to gather for the interview. DO NOT schedule a medical exam until they tell you that you can, because you need your case number for the appointment.

The medical exam

The embassy will send you information with the doctors who have authorization to perform the medical exam (currently, there are three, all in Miraflores). You should call and schedule an appointment, and you will receive an email with instructions about what to bring. For adults, the exam costs S/.650 and this needs to be paid ahead of time at a bank and then you bring the receipt on the day of your appointment. Hold on to the receipt like your life depends on it, because when I asked at the bank they said that if anything happens they can't issue another receipt. You will need to bring your spouse's passport and interview letter on the day of the exam. (We did not have our interview letter yet, but brought the email showing my husband's case number and the instruction to schedule the exam.)

The doctor will take your medical history and do a general exam. He or she will recommend any vaccines that you are missing. If you want to get that out of the way the same day, bring cash to pay for the vaccines. My husband had to get four vaccines, and they came out to around S/.450 altogether so bring enough cash (they don't accept credit cards).

After the general exam, you have a blood test and a chest x-ray. This is at the AngloAmericana clinic, even if your appointment is at a different clinic (like ours was), so I recommend scheduling the appointment with a doctor at AngloAmericana to avoid the hassle of going to two different places. 

About a week after the exam, you can pick up the results. It's important that you do not open the packet, but bring it to the interview still sealed.

A note: it's important to be honest about any medical conditions, because lying in a visa process is considered fraud and if the government finds out, you won't be getting the visa and you might be banned from applying in the future. However, remember that the US is extremely intolerant of drug use so I urge you to consider your answer very carefully when you answer that part of the questionnaire.

Immigrant visa application (CR-1 / IR-1)

What do those letters mean and how do you know which one applies to you? CR stands for "conditional residency" and if you have been married to your spouse for less than two years, you are applying for a conditional residency visa. If your visa is approved, you will get a two-year green card, after which you will have to apply to have conditions removed. IR means "immediate relative" and applies if you have been married for more than two years. Upon approval you will be granted residency for ten years, after which you can renew your green card.

These are the documents the applicant (your foreign spouse) needs:

-original birth certificate (not a copy), legalized by RENIEC
-original marriage certificate, legalized by RENIEC
-original divorce or death decree if your spouse was married before, legalized by RENIEC
-police records (antecedentes policiales) for Peru and any other country your spouse has lived in for more than one year
-court records (antecedentes judiciales a nivel nacional)
-prison records (antecedentes penales)
-military records, if your spouse served in the military (antecedentes militares)
-2 passport photos
-online form DS-260. You can only fill this out after you have received your LMA case number. Print the confirmation code and bring this on the day of your interview. I did not print this, assuming that they should have access since it was an online form. While everything worked out in the end, we had some very tense moments - not what you want the day of your interview!

The affidavit of support (I-864)

This form is filled out by the US citizen spouse, and it fulfills two purposes. The first is to demonstrate sufficient income to support your spouse. If you don't meet the income requirements (I didn't), you can use a joint sponsor and this will in no way be counted against you. You just need to follow the instructions on the form and attach your tax return for the most recent year. The second purpose is to demonstrate that you maintain a US domicile, i.e. that you live in the US. However, for US citizens living abroad you may show 'an intent to re-establish domicile'.
 
Establishing domicile

There are many ways to show domicile. I used a mix of factors showing that I had maintained my US domicile, and that I intended to re-establish domicile. Obviously, if you are applying to live in the US it should be fairly obvious that you do intend to live there, so I wouldn't worry too much about this. Here is the official list of requirements that they will be looking at:

9 FAM 40.41 N7.1-2 Establishing the Existence of a U.S. Domicile (CT:VISA-1995; 06-06-2013) 
a. A petitioner living abroad not meeting the criteria in 9 FAM 40.41 N7.1-1 who wishes to qualify as a sponsor must satisfy you: 
(1) That he or she has taken steps to establish a domicile in the United States; 
(2) That he or she has either already taken up physical residence in the United States or will do so concurrently with the applicant;
(3) The sponsor does not have to precede the applicant to the United States but, if he or she does not do so, he or she must at least arrive in the United States concurrently with the applicant; 
(4) The sponsor must establish an address (a house, an apartment, or arrangements for accommodations with family or friend) and either must have already taken up physical residence in the United States; or 
(5) Must at a minimum to satisfy you that he or she intends to take up residence there no later than the time of the applicant’s immigration to the United States. b. Although there is no time frame for the resident to establish residence, you must be satisfied that the sponsor has, in fact, taken up principal residence in the United States. 
Evidence that the sponsor has established a domicile in the United States and is either physically residing there or intends to do so before or concurrently with the applicant may include the following: 
(1) Opening a bank account; 
(2) Transferring funds to the United States; 
(3) Making investments in the United States; 
(4) Seeking employment in the United States; 
(5) Registering children in U.S. schools; 
(6) Applying for a Social Security number; and 
(7) Voting in local, State, or Federal elections. 
c. If a petitioner cannot satisfy the domicile requirement, the petitioner fails to qualify as a “sponsor” for the purposes of submitting Form I-864, and a joint sponsor cannot be accepted and the applicant must be refused pursuant to INA 212(a)(4). Without a properly executed I-864, signed by a sponsor (the petitioner) who is “domiciled” in the United States, in visa cases which require an I-864, then an immigrant visa cannot be approved.



Here's what I submitted:

Evidence that I have maintained domicile in the US:
-current driver's license
-voting registration card
-bank statements
-retirement account statements

Evidence of steps taken to take up residence in the US:
-LLC creation documents (I registered a company in the US, but you can show 'attempts to seek employment': job applications, emails to potential employers, interview records, etc)
-lease agreement: I signed a 'contract' with my parents stating that we were going to live there (even though I don't actually intend to live there). It's required to show living arrangements, as stated in the official text above, but nobody says you have to actually live there.

Basically, show them that you are serious about establishing yourself in the US: a place to live, a job (or at least evidence that you're looking), a US bank account, and any other ways you can think of to demonstrate how you are going to settle in to your new life.

I also submitted a cover letter / affidavit which you can find below:

Claire Ryan
Social security no: xxx-xx-xxxx
FORM I-864
No. 15 Country of Domicile

I, Claire Ryan, am currently residing in Peru with my spouse, JV. Below you will find a list of attached documents to show that my principle residence is in the US and the steps that I have taken to return to the US with my family.

Steps I have taken to maintain US Domicile:
• Maintained my XX voter registration
• Maintained my bank account at XX Bank
• Maintained my XX drivers license
• Maintained my US retirement fund through XX
• Maintained my US investment account with XX

Supporting Documents for the above steps I have taken:
• Voter registration card showing permanent US address
• Bank statement showing permanent US address
• XX drivers license showing permanent US address
• Retirement fund statement showing permanent US address
• Mutual fund statement showing permanent US address
 

Steps I have taken to return to the US to take up residence:
• Made arrangements for us to have a house to live in
• Set up an LLC with the intention of doing business in the US

Supporting documents for the above steps I have taken:

• Lease agreement for our house
• LLC creation documents
• Invoice from lawyer for creation of LLC

I declare that I intend in good faith to re-establish my domicile in the United States no later than the date of spouse's admission into the US.

I certify under penalty of perjury under the laws of the United States that the statements in this letter and all accompanying evidence are true and correct.


Signature: ____________________________________________________

Date: ______________________
NAME


Now that all the documentation is taken care of, all that's left is the interview itself.

martes, 23 de junio de 2015

Visa madness part 1: the I-130 (Direct Consular Filing in Peru)

Ok, so the title is a bit of a misnomer. I couldn't have been happier with how our process turned out. Nobody applies for a US visa thinking it'll be a quick and painless process, but I was quite pleasantly surprised by how smooth our Direct Consular Filing process was from start to finish - only three months! Compared to the year-long wait times for the National Visa Center in the US, filing directly with the embassy is a huge advantage. Why wouldn't everybody do it this way? Well, because not everybody is eligible.

To be eligible for Direct Consular Filing in Peru, you must:
  • be legally married (the US does not recognize common-law marriages).
  • have lived in Peru for at least 6 months and currently reside in Peru (for the US citizen petitioner).
If you are not married, or if the US citizen/permanent resident doesn't live in Peru, you can't apply for an immigrant visa through the embassy and you must apply through the National Visa Center in the US. You should probably find a more reliable source of information than this blog, and/or contact a lawyer.

There are two steps to the application: the I-130 petition by the US citizen or resident (processed by US Citizenship and Immigration Services), and the immigrant visa application once the I-130 has been approved (processed by the Department of State). I'm only going to talk about the I-130 in this post.

They will be looking at two things in this step: A) is the petitioner eligible to submit the petition on behalf of his/her spouse? and B) is the marriage legitimate? For the first point, this means the petitioner must be a US citizen, and for DCF through the Lima embassy you have to demonstrate that you reside in Peru and have for at least 6 months. (Under normal circumstances it's possible to submit a petition if you are a permanent resident; however, living in Peru for over 6 months means you have lost your US residency.) I'll talk about how to prove the legitimacy of the relationship below.

Required documents:

-Copy* of original marriage certificate.
-Copy* of divorce decree or death certificate in case of previous marriages.
-Copy* of the petitioner's US birth certificate, passport biodata page, or naturalization certificate (to prove citizenship).
-Copy* of the beneficiary's passport biodata page.
-Copy* of the beneficiary's birth certificate.
-Form G-325A for the petitioner (the US citizen) and the beneficiary (the spouse).
-One passport photo of both the petitioner and the beneficiary. Here is a link to passport photo guidelines.
-Form I-130, completed and signed.
-Evidence of Peruvian domicile (see below)
-Evidence of a bona fide relationship (see below)

*USCIS only requires photocopies, but you may be asked to show the original so you should bring it when you submit the I-130 packet. It's better to be safe than sorry!

A note about translations: According to USCIS, all documents not in English need to be translated. I found that if the documents were in Spanish they did not ask for a translation, but again it's better to be safe than sorry. But don't run out and hire an official translator yet. You or a friend can translate the documents if you know Spanish.  You simply need to attach an affidavit for each translation stating that you are fluent in both languages and that it is a true and accurate translation, with your signature and the date.

Evidence of Peruvian domicile

According to the USCIS document, there are a few ways to show you have Peruvian domicile. However, when I showed up with a good number of these pieces of evidence they did not accept my petition and told me to go to Migraciones in Breña and get the Movimiento Migratorio (your entry/exit record in Peru). It's great to include other proof, but that seems to be the golden ticket; in fact, they did not even accept the photocopy of my carnet. They told me it was because you can have a carnet, lease, work contract etc and still be out of the country for long periods of time; the Movimiento Migratorio is the only solid proof that you have been physically present in Peru for at least 6 months. So, here is the list of what you need to fulfill this requirement.

Required:
-Movimiento Migratorio: can be obtained very quickly at Migraciones in Breña. No appointment is needed, and you do not need to go yourself - anyone can request this without a carta de poder. Pay at the Banco de la Nación inside - it was around S/. 20-30. I think they only had hours in the morning to do this, but I don't remember exactly so it's better to call if you're not sure.
-Copy of carnet de extranjería if you have it, just in case. (I believe it's possible to apply without having a carnet, but I'm not certain.)

Optional but helpful:
-Work contract/job letter
-Cell phone or utility bills
-Lease
-Insurace policies
-Bank statements from Peruvian bank account

Evidence of bona fide relationship

This is one of those times where it's better to err on the side of too many pictures and too many documents rather than too few. Keep in mind that they will judge the veracity of your relationship based solely on the evidence you provide. Your friends know you are a sweet and committed couple, but these people are strangers who don't know you and whose job it is to assume your relationship is fraudulent until you prove them wrong.

As stated on the I-130, these are the types of evidence that demonstrate a bona fide marriage:

-Proof of joint ownership of property
-A lease showing you live together
-Proof of co-mingling of financial resources (i.e., a joint bank account or filing taxes jointly)
-Birth certificates for any children you and your spouse have together
-Affidavits by friends, family, or acquaintances (see the I-130 for more information on this.) This is probably the weakest of all evidence, so it's not usually necessary unless you are really thin on other evidence.
-Any other relevant documents to show an ongoing marital relationship. This means lots and lots of photos, trip receipts, Skype or email conversations, cards from friends and family addressed to both of you, etcetera.

Here is what I submitted in my petition:

-Marriage certificate.
-Photos from our wedding, including shots of family members/guests posing with us.
-Copy of our wedding invitation.
-Congratulations card from friends, addressed to both of us.
-Photos from prior trips and events in our relationship (best to include a variety, and include photos with friends/family. I've heard that photos with 'gringos' in them are preferred although I can't verify the veracity of this statement).
-Bank statements from our joint bank account, opened five months before the petition date.
-Lease showing both our names, signed a year and a half before the petition date.
-Health insurance policy showing both our names, opened a year before the petition date.

Some notes:

-We brought at least 40-50 photos, and the woman looked through them and chose six to make a copy of. I got to keep all the originals but I wouldn't count on that.

-We had been married only a few weeks before submitting the petition, so we had to submit evidence of our ongoing relationship before that. Whether you've been married a long time or short time, be sure to submit evidence of an ongoing relationship (trips, birthday/holiday celebrations, leases etc showing your life together for the duration of the relationship).

-If you live together, you probably don't need to submit Skype or email conversations. If you spent a long time apart either before or during your marriage, it might be a good idea.

Dropping off the petition at USCIS

You can drop off the petition at USCIS in the US Embassy on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9-11. Obviously, you have to bring your original passport to show at the gate or they won't let you in. Despite what some misinformed security guards might tell you, you do NOT need an appointment to drop off the I-130 petition. You should get in the shorter line on the right-hand side of the embassy (the very long line on the left is for visa appointments - you'll have that fun experience in the next step).

Although USCIS hours begin at 9, they will let you enter before 9 o'clock, and believe me, you want to be there early. Plan to be in line outside the embassy by at least 8:30. The first time, I went about ten minutes to nine and I was number 17. I waited for two hours on extremely uncomfortable benches. The second time I made sure to get there early, and I was number 2. I was walking out of the embassy by 9:30.

After you go through security at the door (important: be sure to read my note on that below!), go to the USCIS area of the embassy, which should be clearly marked. There, you should take a blue card with a number on it, then wait for your number to be called.

IMPORTANT: New security policy at US embassy in Lima

As of April 2015, the embassy has implemented a new and extremely draconian security policy. You can see full details on the embassy website. There are some obvious items like sharp objects or flammable liquids, but here are the new restrictions below.

Newly prohibited items:

-cell phones
-any device with a battery
-electronic devices such as flash drives (USB drives) and electronic car keys, cameras, laptops, etc
-ANY purse or bag larger than a small clutch or travel wallet. See the website for exact dimensions, but it is quite small.

The embassy used to store these items at the security desk, but they don't do this anymore. Obviously, this has annoyed and inconvenienced many. Many of the copy places across the street from the embassy now offer 'lockers' to store your things, but the one I went to tied up my purse in a plastic bag, wrote my name on it, and placed it behind a chair. So, use at your own risk and don't bring anything of value.

Payment

When you go to the window to drop off your forms, the person helping you will sort through your documents and keep the ones that are relevant for the petition (don't freak out if they reject some documents - they know what they need and what they don't). Then they will give you a form to take to the other side of the embassy to pay the $420 filing fee. This is the building in front of the big American flag - when you go in, go through the door on the left-hand side or ask the security guard.

In the USCIS document, it says this must be paid in cash; however, they do accept Visa cards. Go to the payment window to pay, and they will give you a receipt for your records and an official receipt to bring back to the USCIS window. You do not need to take another number, just lurk around until the person who is being helped is finished, then go up to the window and drop off your receipt. You should be all set!

After dropping off your petition

 The person helping you will take your email address and tell you that you will receive an email from USCIS in a certain number of days. The USCIS document says 5-10 business days, but they told me 15 business days (3 weeks). That would have been really swell, but it actually took twice as long - about a month and a half. When you receive the email, you can have a celebratory drink, relax a little bit... and prepare for more waiting. More on that in Part 2!

I hope this information was helpful. Please remember that this is based only on my personal experience, and none of this is qualified legal advice. For any questions, I recommend contacting USCIS in Lima directly and/or an immigration lawyer.

USCIS email contact: peru.uscis@uscis.dhs.gov

Here is the contact information for the lawyer I used. He lives in Lima, and I found being able to meet face-to-face extremely helpful.

Matthew Anderson - email: matt@andersonvisa.com




lunes, 16 de febrero de 2015

Getting Married in Peru: The Wedding!

What a week! I am now a married woman, since Jorge and I tied the knot last Thursday. It was a wonderful week, if a bit stressful, and some part of me still can't believe that I'm married.


We had a civil ceremony, which is the Peruvian equivalent of getting married at City Hall. The difference is that here, everyone is required by law to get married at the City Hall, and then you can have a religious ceremony if you want. Most Peruvians have a simple civil ceremony, and then have the big religious wedding at a later time when they can afford to throw the kind of party they want. Some couples put this off so long that to me it really seems like more of a renewal of vows (after 5 years you can hardly call it a wedding surely), but to each his own I guess. Jorge and I aren't planning to wait that long!

It was great to have my mom, my sister and my brother in town for the wedding . Even though it was a busy few days, we managed to get some tourism in and eat at some great restaurants. The night before the ceremony, all the friends and family went out for drinks so everybody could meet each other before the actual wedding. Unbeknownst to us, the next day was Pisco Sour day, so there was a film crew at the bar and they interviewed me. So, in addition to getting married, that weekend was my Peruvian TV debut. (Please don't look it up.)


The morning of the wedding, the ladies had our hair and makeup done in the hotel and then it was off to get married! Our wedding was at 2 in the afternoon so it was peak sun time. The poor men, including my dear husband, were suffering in their suits, and I wasn't faring much better even in my knee-length dress. We had the photo shoot before the wedding, so Jorge and I went off to have pictures taken while our guests chatted.


Finally, we all went into the 'marriage hall' where there was a desk and four chairs at the front of the room for the bride and groom and their witnesses. The chairs had their back facing the guests which I found kind of strange. The ceremony itself was short and sweet, and consisted of the officiant reading the articles of Peru's constitution pertaining to the rights and responsibilities that go along with marriage. It's some pretty romantic stuff. Then we all had to sign the marriage documents and we were married! We decided to exchange rings and read our own vows in order to make the ceremony more personal - definitely my favorite part. The whole thing lasted between five and ten minutes, and then it was time for the toast!


After about a million more pictures and some champagne, we all went to a restaurant to eat. At this point, due to the heat, the anticipation and excitement of the day, and the fact that I hadn't eaten since breakfast, I was about ready to keel over from hunger and exhaustion. After we had a delicious meal and a cold beer, it was time to say goodbye to the guests and go back to the hotel. I shared a cab with my family to their hotel while Jorge followed in a separate taxi - only four people can fit in one cab, at least for long rides. We hung out a bit there and looked at pictures, and then Jorge and I made our way to the hotel we had reserved for that night to take a catnap before dinner. The hotel was really fancy - thanks Groupon for making that happen.

All in all, a successful wedding! It was great to finally meet Jorge's family and to be able to show my family around a little bit. It would have been nice to have my father and my brother Tom in town, but that's the rub when you get married so far away from home.

I couldn't be more excited to start my life together with the amazing man I married. In fact, I'm so excited that I'm going to stop writing this and go and tell him again how happy I am with him.


domingo, 15 de febrero de 2015

Getting Married in Peru: Paperwork and Preparations

 Jorge and I got married last Thursday! It was a simple ceremony, but the whole thing was really nice especially because my family was able to come down for it. But I'm getting ahead of myself - the next post will be about the actual wedding, but this post is about the paperwork side of things.

Getting married in Peru is surprisingly easy compared to other official government processes. In terms of paperwork, it's much less burdensome than getting your carnet de extranjería (residence permit), requiring fewer documents and fewer steps overall. And the greatest part is, you don't have to pay anything at the Banco de la Nación, Peru's central bank that always has lines around the block. That said, nothing in Peru is ever easy peasy lemon squeezy, and we did have a few hiccups before finally sorting everything out.

Finally, making things official!

Every district has slightly different requirements, but here were the requirements for Surco:

1. Official birth certificate, issued in the last three months and apostilled (if you are from a country that is a Hague Convention signer)
2. Certificado de soltería, or a sworn statement of singlehood. You can get this from the U.S. Embassy (and pay a bundle) or in the U.S. county where you have permanent residence. If it's the latter, then it also has to be apostilled. I believe this also has to be less than three months old.
3. The two documents above must be translated by an official translator licensed by the Ministerio de Relaciones Exteriores (Ministry of Foreign Affairs), then taken to the Ministerio to get the translation 'legalized'. (I guess they don't trust their own translators?)

Here's a list of official translators by district: http://www.rree.gob.pe/servicioalciudadano/Documents/Listado_Ingles.pdf

4. A copy of your partner's birth certificate.
5. A certificate from the district's clinic - you have your blood drawn, they take an X-ray, and then you go back the next day where they 'counsel' you and give you your certificate. Supposedly, they talk to you about pregnancy planning and STDs, but they just explained our blood types and that was it.
6. A carnet-sized photo of each person, which can be taken at any photo store and most supermarkets.
7. A copy of your passport or carnet (more on that below) and copy of your partner's DNI (national identity card), both notarized.
8. You will also need two witnesses for the wedding, who should go with you to fill out the paperwork and bring a copy of their carnet / DNI.
9. Finally, the district will issue a marriage announcement that can be published in any newspaper. You have to buy the newspaper and bring in the entire page (no cuttings) with the marriage announcement to finalize your paperwork.

I have no idea what the administrative costs are to get married in the US, but here it's not too bad. The documents you need as a foreigner and the translation will probably be the most costly thing about it. From what I can remember, here were the costs of each step:

My birth cert and apostille were about $25 together, plus express shipping to my home state;
The record search and apostille for my certificado de soltería were $10 in total (but if you go to the US Embassy in Lima it'll cost you $30 or more);
The translation for both documents was S/.160 (about $50), but I was quoted much higher prices by other translators so shop around!;
The legalization fee was S/.33 per document, a total of about $20 (the costs add up for these documents for foreigners as you can see);
The medical exam was S/.35 per person, or about $10 per person;
The wedding announcement was S/.45, or about $15;
The fee for the municipality was somewhere around S/.200 ($70) since we were both residents of Surco and we had the ceremony during normal business hours. This included an extra half hour for a toast in the room where they do the weddings;
Plus a lot of money spent on taxis to and from the various places we needed to be.

You need some additional documents if you are divorced or widowed, but that's about it. Doesn't sound too bad, does it? The tricky part is in the fact that I have not once, ever, received correct information here the first time I asked. So you need to constantly be asking and double-checking to make sure you actually have all the requirements. For example, I was told using my passport would be preferable to using my carnet. I was doubtful, but since the lady insisted so many times that that was indeed correct, I used my passport number on the health certificate. Then, when we went to present our documents, she asked why my passport had no exit date written on my last entrance stamp. I pointed out that it was because I had entered with my carnet and therefore was allowed to be here until that was no longer valid. She frowned and told me that if there was no date on the passport stamp, I had to use my carnet. Cue incredulous look and strong desire to throw things. So we had to go back to the clinic and have them re-issue the document, and then return to the district office before they could reserve our wedding date. In the grand scheme of things, not such a big deal, but I was pretty annoyed since I had specifically asked this very question.

So there you have it! If you can manage to do all that without losing your cool at least once, then marriage should be a breeze.